Sunday, December 16, 2012

Everybody wants to feel "SPECIAL"

The only thing we lack today in our life is our time. Without this time and a plenty of things in mind, life gets tough on relationships. These bonds weaken over time. Even with colleagues our general likability goes down adversely impacting our professional growth. What can we do to change it?

We always like those people who listen to our stories, appreciate our work, or laugh at our jokes. These are the people who tell us that our story, work or joke is special. In a way they make us feel special by covertly  caring about us. In on line, everyone, the attention seeker or the introvert wants to feel special. The big people, and even the small ones, all want it. Getting it makes the world slightly more happy. The following video from the movie "Munnabhai MBBS" is a perfect demonstration of the positive effect.

We live in a social world where our success not only depends on our performance but that of our team. For a team to be successful every person in it needs to feel special. Effective leaders do it naturally and that is why end up being looked up to by others. When your team likes you, they will be motivated to work for you.